creating you

Too many times I am asked “How do I find the right man?” or “How do I know she is the one for me?” The problem is everyone seems to still be believing that it is merely about (find your love) when it is all about becoming able to accept true love.

Being an artist it is easy to picture this analogy…. mixing colors as I go through the painting process, adding as I go. This blog is for the artist in each of you.

We are all born a white canvas… as we experience life splashes of color is added, if you have a good childhood, or had a bad childhood, when you loved, how you were hurt… we either accept what people have decorated on us or we decorate ourselves.

Slowly but surely there is no more white, some change color drastically through time others change very little. When once you were a soft pink, with dots of gold, as you experience heart ache, and trials, accomplishments and achieve goals, you change; you might change so much so that there is little left of your softness and dreamy nature.

As we change so do others…. The mate that is for you…. right now as we speak is changing their colors and collecting their designs. If you meet them right now on this day, you would look them over and disregard  as “not my style”, you would see that you clash in every way. (a green next to a purple!)

When we are content in who we are and what we are… When we are finished decorating and being decorated we can say “I am ready to compliment what I am with someone else” then when you look around and see a person that fits who you are, and they sees you fit who they are. No more “looking for love” It was there all along, Well, there is no question “do we belong together?”

Your eyes are opened to the way you complement each other completely and MOST important thing is that from that point on, you can trust in the fact that there is not that much change left and if there is change it is done together, so in 10 years they still match you.

There are exemptions to this rule. Some people do not change much or can change to match other people in those cases high school sweet hearts can remain married, women can give up their dreams and personality to meet their families needs and be semi-happy. But do not hold your breath.

Better you do what you are supposed to be doing. BE YOU, design, decorate, educate, experience, mix those colors until you are just the right shade you that you need to be to match that future mate, and somewhere out there….your “true love” is doing the same.

Sometimes all we need is boost of excitement and quick look at the future to keep us going .. faith is hard to come by but be assured your true love is out there, get a reading from me and see just how close.

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Is He The One for Me ?

Look at your life and everyone else’s lives as a giant puzzle… lets say a 6 ½ billion piece puzzle (world population).  Can you comprehend that number?

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Let me break it down for you, if each puzzle piece were ½ inch in size the puzzles size would not fit on the North American continent.

So many pieces to choose from, so many variations and varieties, each have their true place but so many are similar in size and color and shape.

Just the law of averages will ensure that some of those pieces would be identical, so the thought of there being only one soul mate is bit ridiculous.

Each piece is just as important as the other and each piece has its place. Just because one piece doesn’t fit next to you doesn’t mean that it is less a piece of the puzzle.

Just like you finding out that a mate doesn’t really fit in your life doesn’t make them bad just the wrong choice. They will fit with someone else, and that is fine.

Too many times we get so angry at the ones we date because they are not perfect that they have what we see as flaws, but it is not our place to judge or change those people. And no one should attempt to change you.

You fit perfect in your spot !

I spent a good portion of my life going through the puzzle pieces, seems like all 6 ½ billion. I would pick up a piece and set it in the empty spot that one doesn’t fit = too controlling, that one doesn’t fit= too untrustworthy, this one is an alcoholic, that one doesn’t accept my children,  he is not self motivated, and that one is not religious.

We can spend our whole life trying to fill that spot and in the end never settle or compromise and still be alone. While others settle and always wonder if they had only held out would they have met the one that fits instead of hammering in a square into a circles spot?

The good news is most of us already can glance through the crowds and see automatically the ones not worth the time to pick up. Telling our selves what color, shape and size we are looking for, I need an edge piece or one with a decent job.

And we are not the only one looking for our puzzle mate. They are looking for their spot to.

I never look down on people willing to go to extremes either, by all means join a date line or spend a few dollars on a match agency at the very least it will give you some insight as to what you are really looking for.
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Psychics can also point you in the proper direction as far as what type of man best fits you and when you might get some opportunities to meet acceptable matches. Not to mention our co-workers and friends often can help you sort through the masses, and it isn’t like we spend every waking hour on this puzzle.

Some times we rest, live our lives, create a purpose …. Or do a cross word.  And really anyone that has ever done a jigsaw puzzle knows, yes the finishing of a puzzle has a sense of satisfaction but it is the hunt that makes it fun, or instead of a puzzle in a box they would buy a picture.
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Who Is My Soul Mate & How to Find Your Soul Mate

how to find your soulmate

Look at your life and everyone else’s lives as a giant puzzle… lets say a 6 ½ billion piece puzzle (world population). So many pieces to choose from, so many variations and varieties, each have their true place but so many are similar in size and color and shape.

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Just the laws of averages will ensure that some of those pieces would be identical, so the thought of there being only one soul mate is ridiculous.

Each piece is just as important as the other and each piece has its place. Just because one piece doesn’t fit next to you doesn’t mean that it is less a piece of the puzzle.

Just like you finding out that a mate doesn’t really fit in your life doesn’t make them bad just the wrong choice. They will fit with someone else, and that is fine. Too many times we get so angry at the ones we date because they are not perfect that they have what we see as flaws, but it is not our place to judge or change those people. And no one should attempt to change you. You fit perfect in your spot.

I spent a good portion of my life going through the puzzle pieces, seems like all 6 ½ billion. I would pick up a piece and set it in the empty spot “that one doesn’t fit= too controlling, that one doesn’t fit= too untrustworthy, this one is an alcoholic, that one doesn’t accept my children, he is not self motivated, and that one is not religious.”

We can spend our whole life trying to fill that spot and in the end never settle or compromise and still be alone. While others settle and always wonder if they had only held out would they have met the one that fits instead of hammering in a square into a circles spot?

The good news is most of us already can glance through the crowds and see automatically the ones not worth the time to pick up. Telling ourselves what color, shape and size we are looking for, “I need an edge piece or one with a decent job”.

And we are not the only one looking for our puzzle mate. They are looking for their spot too. I never look down on people willing to go to extremes either, by all means join a date line or spend a few dollars on a match agency at the very least it will give you some insight as to what you are really looking for.
Create your own banner at mybannermaker.com!
Make your own banner at MyBannerMaker.com!

Psychics can also point you in the proper direction as far as what type of man best fits you and when you might get some opportunities to meet acceptable matches. Not to mention our co-workers and friends often can help you sort through the masses, and it isn’t like we spend every waking hour on this puzzle.

Some times we rest, live our lives, create a purpose …. Or do a cross word.  And really anyone that has ever done a jigsaw puzzle knows, yes the finishing of a puzzle has a sense of satisfaction but it is the hunt that makes it fun, or instead of a puzzle in a box they would buy a poster.


 

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