Happy new years

15%Off_125x125button[new years] comes and goes and we are neither changed or change the world around us. But before you put up the new years decorations, send out the invitations or RSVP someone else [new years eve 2011], lets think for a second what we can do this new years that is different then the lasts. “What can I do to change?”, “What is my [new years resolutions]?”

Weather your resolution is to loose a few pounds or a few sizes (My personal favorite is Acia Berrybut no matter the diet….We usually loose steam into the 4th week or find new subjects to obese about come valentines day. so lets be realistic, make boundaries, reinforce our resolution with real true life goals. That includes, weight loss , any dietor change of eating habits.

1)Make a list of things you would not mind changing (emotional, physical and financial) at least 10 but less than 20

2)some things might be a more “baby step process” so pick the ones that can be achieved in one year (account for seasons)

3) you have a pretty tight schedule so weed out the ones that are just way to taxing on your free time.

4) you should have around 3 that are useful and realistic candidates for a good new years resolution. So that from [new years eve] onward you can start you plan of betterment

I usually have predictions for each coming year for my clients, each have their own concerns… Will I find love this year? Will I do well in College? will I finally get settled in my job? But no matter the outcome of each reading I always have the same advice.

Your life is yours, test may be pressed upon you occasionally but how you approach these hurdles is up to you… you can either see them as a good opportunity to learn something new or fuss and complain that you are being forced do something you had not planed for. Life is full of surprises both good and bad. If you are supposed to loose your job, there is no horoscope or tarot reads that are going to tell you how to change that outcome.

BUT… I can tell you that there is no bad without good. and while you might see loosing your job as a tragedy, God never closes one door with out opening another. It is always for the good, even if it was nothing more then strengthening your will or showing your true appreciation for what you have.

So as you make this lists of things you want for yourself… this better you that you envision remember that what you are this very minutes is the best of this year and the best of next year will still be you. I want you to learn and grow and create in yourself the perfect you, I want your goals to always be realized, not just in a form of new years resolutions but in all ways Year round.

if it was only mind over matter we would all be shaped like models and have the bank account to go along with their looks. Relax you are perfect in your own wonderful way. and the things “you” dislike about yourself can be fixed with effort and time. I love you and God loves you with all your glorious imperfections. This new year above all “Loving yourself” should top the list.

Second “Loving and appreciating friends” which is the whole spirit of “[old lang syne]” the bringing together of friends old and new and celebrating yet another years passing. So lets us drink a cup of kindness and for the memories. Happy New Year and many many more.

Peace Always

Your psychic Deborah Cavins

Christmas Spirit

It’s the reason for the season and the joy to the world, but for some, christmas is anything but joyful. Steeling, abuse, suicides, traffic jams and disappointments. My very good friend opened my eyes this season in a big way, I was on the phone with him while driving and I was complaining of the bumper to bumper traffic up ahead. I live on a very busy shopping area in my city and I was very late to an early christmas party and I was expected on time since I had promised to bring the refreshments. I had already had a pretty rough day and was telling all the atrocities I had overcome earlier. “GREAT! another accident!”

He asked in a sweet calm voice “So you think you are having a bad day?” my reply “YES!” …..he laughed, well not as bad a day as they are having I am bet……. Silence…. I had nothing to say, which is extremely not in my character. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I was being given advice from one of my friends, instead of the other way around “aww the student has bypass the master, grasshopper”

I had let the chaos of the commercial Christmas corrupt my christmas spirit. You hear all the time the words Christmas and think that unless you are brought up in a perfect christian family, sitting around a Christmas tree, singing silent night… well…. Christmas is less then perfect. This holiday season is not about shopping until you have debt up to your ears, but it is not about spending it singing Christmas carols and riding a horse drawn slay to grandmothers house. surprisingly enough it does not even have to be Christian. Confused yet?

Most non-christian religions may not believe that Jesus is the son of God, but they do view him as a great profit and follow his teaching closely. The #1 thing Jesus taught is that we are all brothers and sisters. In the worldly sight of those words we see we are all family and if that is truly the spirit of Christmas is to spend time with family then we must include all the world in that joyous event.  Ok…. so, we all can’t buy every neighbor a gift or as far as that goes, our house might even be a little small for inviting the less fortunate in for dinner.

BUT….. Make a plate and bring it to a person sitting a home alone on Christmas, If you get a gift you really don’t want or need…. re-gift, re-warp that sucker and put it on someone else step, push the door bell and hide. So what if no one else would do that (you just did) so what if people are fussing about traffic and shopping like a crazed maniac YOU MAKE YOUR OWN HOLIDAY SPIRIT.

You don’t have family to share the holidays with? no problem, remember what I said we are all family. Take a walk, wave and say “Merry Christmas to everyone you meet”. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, sweep someones walk. get your mind off of being alone and realize that being alone gives you the freedom to help others. Call an old friend you hadn’t seen in years, or family a member that has removed themselves from the rest of the family and be the one that says “I don’t want anything from you, I just wanted to wish you a merry christmas and say I am here if you want to talk”

Most of all create in yourself an awareness that this is more then christmas gifts and  Holiday parties, It is realizing those people in that accident are worse off then you and caring that they are your extended family to.

Merry Christmas From Me and Mine!

creating you

Too many times I am asked “How do I find the right man?” or “How do I know she is the one for me?” The problem is everyone seems to still be believing that it is merely about (find your love) when it is all about becoming able to accept true love.

Being an artist it is easy to picture this analogy…. mixing colors as I go through the painting process, adding as I go. This blog is for the artist in each of you.

We are all born a white canvas… as we experience life splashes of color is added, if you have a good childhood, or had a bad childhood, when you loved, how you were hurt… we either accept what people have decorated on us or we decorate ourselves.

Slowly but surely there is no more white, some change color drastically through time others change very little. When once you were a soft pink, with dots of gold, as you experience heart ache, and trials, accomplishments and achieve goals, you change; you might change so much so that there is little left of your softness and dreamy nature.

As we change so do others…. The mate that is for you…. right now as we speak is changing their colors and collecting their designs. If you meet them right now on this day, you would look them over and disregard  as “not my style”, you would see that you clash in every way. (a green next to a purple!)

When we are content in who we are and what we are… When we are finished decorating and being decorated we can say “I am ready to compliment what I am with someone else” then when you look around and see a person that fits who you are, and they sees you fit who they are. No more “looking for love” It was there all along, Well, there is no question “do we belong together?”

Your eyes are opened to the way you complement each other completely and MOST important thing is that from that point on, you can trust in the fact that there is not that much change left and if there is change it is done together, so in 10 years they still match you.

There are exemptions to this rule. Some people do not change much or can change to match other people in those cases high school sweet hearts can remain married, women can give up their dreams and personality to meet their families needs and be semi-happy. But do not hold your breath.

Better you do what you are supposed to be doing. BE YOU, design, decorate, educate, experience, mix those colors until you are just the right shade you that you need to be to match that future mate, and somewhere out there….your “true love” is doing the same.

Sometimes all we need is boost of excitement and quick look at the future to keep us going .. faith is hard to come by but be assured your true love is out there, get a reading from me and see just how close.

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